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Tuesday’s Tip: Set Your Credit Report Straight

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Last week I wrote about our recent experience with credit card fraud. My husband and I took the necessary steps to make sure our credit, and our good names, were secure by cancelling our credit card, getting a new one, and obtaining credit reports for each of us. Then, someone who had read the post asked me what to do if something was wrong with the report . . . if there was information that was incorrect. What to do?

Well, it happens. In fact, what I didn’t elaborate on last week was that there was a discrepancy on two of my reports. When we looked at the reports, we noticed that there was a credit card listed that didn’t belong to me. Upon closer inspection, we discovered that the credit card had been opened October 1st of 1980. 1980?!?!?! How in the world could I have opened a credit card in 1980? I was 8 years old for cryin’ out loud! It was a good thing that whoever owned the card paid on time every month, but still . . . it wasn’t mine. I tried to think of any reason why this would be on my credit report, but nothing came to mind. And it made me a little nervous . . . I wanted it off my report! I called the numbers listed on the reports and asked what I should do to remove it. One representative I spoke with asked me a few questions, then simply told me it would be removed and that she’d send a confirmation email. The other rep I spoke to was really nice and even looked into it a little further for me. She told me that I was an “authorized user” on the card. I asked her what that meant. She said it meant that I had authorization to actually use the card, but that it wasn’t in my name. I wasn’t the owner. I had to laugh, then, when she told me that my maiden name was associated with the card and the last reported address on the card was my dad’s! So, I thanked her for taking care of it for me . . . and then promptly called my dad. 🙂

Moral of the story: If you get a credit report and find that something’s amiss, don’t panic – but don’t wait. Set it straight.

Experian, Trans Union, and Equifax will give you the option of disputing information you feel is erroneous. There’s a section on the credit report that informs you of your rights, how you can combat identity theft, and how to contact them if you want to file a dispute. In some cases, you can click on a button to file a claim, or you can call their toll-free number and talk to an actual person. You might find that it’s something related to a family member, like I did, or you may find that someone could be using your information illegally. In any case, it’s a good idea to get your yearly (FREE) credit reports, pay attention to anything that seems fishy, and report it immediately. You have rights. Fight for what’s yours.

Good luck!

Tuesday’s Tip: Count Your Blessings

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New Year’s Eve: easily one of the most anticipated days of the year – or one of the most dreaded. Whether we’re bidding a fond ‘farewell’ to great times or saying ‘good riddance’ to memories we’d rather forget, we tend to spend this time reflecting on the events of the past year before we look ahead to whatever awaits us during the year to come. And it isn’t always easy.

For me, I belong to the group of people who would like to tie up 2013 in a trash bag and throw it on the curb. It can rot in the dump alongside 2012. My family and I have endured enough heartache and loss in two years to last us for quite a while, so I suppose we’re hoping not necessarily for a prosperous or wonderful year, but maybe just one that doesn’t beat us up so much. And I know I’m not alone. Many people feel this way. It’s a little frightening to wonder what life has in store for us in the new year after all we’ve been through.

But as much as I might like to wash 2013 down the drain, I must also show a little gratitude for what the struggles have revealed to me. My friends supported me, even when I was at my worst. I’ve grown closer to others in my family. I appreciate and enjoy my children more. My marriage is stronger than ever. My feelings about what’s really important in life have changed for the better. And I’ve survived, which tells me I’m tougher than I thought.

So, I’m thinking that instead of feeling sorry for myself as I ring in 2014, maybe I’ll rummage through 2013, keep what I need, and toss the rest. Then I’ll start fresh in the morning and take it as it comes, grateful for all that I have. I’m not saying that I won’t grieve or feel sadness or anger, but I just won’t let it consume me. I’ll have another New Year’s Eve whenever I need it, take stock of the good stuff, get rid of the bad, and keep going.

I’m not one for making New Year’s resolutions, but maybe counting my blessings every once in a while is a good start . . .

Tuesday’s Tip: Hold It In!

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With the weather in Chicago turning (much!) colder, my husband and I had our yearly conversation about how to keep electric and heating costs down this winter. Not that our bills are outrageous. In fact, ours seem to be lower than a lot of people we talk to, but it takes a little effort to keep them under control. Still, we want our family to be comfortable, so when our daughter came to us complaining that she had to pile six blankets on her bed to keep warm at night, we were concerned. Hubby and I looked at each other. The window? And not just any window. A set of three large windows, actually, that take up virtually one entire wall of the bedroom. Without a word, we both trudged up the stairs to assess the situation. Our hands hovered over every joint, edge, and seam of the windows, searching for the tell-tale draft we were sure was turning our little girl into an icicle. We couldn’t find it, but we did notice how very cold it was. The giant wall of glass provided no insulation from the cold that secretly seeped into the room.

What to do . . .

Well, way back in the day, when I was in college (and, no, I’m telling how far back) my roommate and I shared the top floor of a century-old house with windows facing every direction to the outside world. It was great when it was sunny, filling the apartment with warm sunshine. But during the winter, the wind’s icy fingers crept into our little home, making the radiators moan with the effort of keeping us warm. We asked our landlady what to do and all she offered in the way of advice was to stuff towels along the seams and hang old blankets from the curtain rods. Huh . . . yeah, ok. Sure. That’ll work. We tried it anyway, but didn’t like the fact that the blankets blocked out the natural light, making us feel like we were living in a dungeon. And it didn’t do a very good job of stopping the drafts from finding other gaps in the window sills. So, we asked our parents. They suggested putting plastic over the windows. We did, and it worked. It wasn’t perfect, but we were much warmer and, subsequently, happier knowing we weren’t going to have to take a blow dryer to our toes in the morning anymore.

So, my husband stopped by the hardware store on his way home from work the next day and picked up a package of insulating wrap. It was only about $8 or $10 and was made for large windows and patio doors. After dinner, we set out to keep our daughter from freezing while she slept. Start to finish, it took us about 45 minutes. We took down the valances and curtains, wiped the surfaces, then rolled the double-sided tape along all the edges. Next, we carefully placed the plastic around the window, trying not to make any wrinkles. Then my husband waved my hair dryer over the entire surface until the plastic was taut. Then we replaced all the curtains. Done. The next morning, our daughter gleefully informed us that she was so warm that night that she had to take off her socks and shed a blanket or two. Naturally, we were relieved and glad we wouldn’t be treating her for frostbite.

Surprisingly, the process of insulating windows with plastic isn’t very difficult. Plus, it’s an inexpensive way to block drafts and chilliness while holding the heat in, which will save you money on heating costs. You can even see through it. If you have drafty windows, but can’t afford to replace them just yet, consider installing these plastic insulating wraps to your windows. You can find them at hardware, grocery, and discount stores. (Chances are they’re on sale right now.) They also come in several different sizes with everything you need to protect your windows, including instructions. You supply the hair dryer. It’s an easy, inexpensive alternative to freezing to death or going broke.

Tuesday’s Tip: Keep Your Balance!

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When people ask me about my book and what it does, I tell them that it’s a kind of ‘workbook’ that’s designed to help them set up their very own Roadmap and learn how to effectively manage their money. How? they ask. I say that it asks them to take a good, hard look at how they spend their money, to set priorities (goals) for themselves, and to stick with it. The book teaches them how to do these things as well as how to set up their Roadmap and how to use it on a regular basis. It helps them keep track of their money – where it’s going, where it needs to be, and what to do with the rest. Sometimes the next question that comes up is How do you know how much money you’re supposed to start with? I then explain that they’ll start with whatever amount is in their account – which is usually followed up by How am I supposed to know how much is in my account? And I say, Well, you’ll need to balance your checkbook.

It’s then that I fear I’ll have to use CPR. They inhale sharply, their hands fly to their chests, their eyes widen, and their mouths gape in horror at the mere thought of having to balance their checkbooks. I reach out to them. I try to steady them with a calming hand on the arm. Occasionally, I have to remind them to breathe . . .

As terrifying as it may sound, balancing your checkbook is one of the first, necessary, steps to setting up your Roadmap and getting control of your finances. You have to make sure all of your debits (outgoing money) and credits (incoming money) are completely accounted for, included in your checkbook, and the balance matches what the bank says you have. This can be particularly difficult if you’ve never balanced your account before, or if it’s been a really long time. But in all honesty, once that’s done, it’s much easier to keep up with it if you balance every time you get your statement. (And if you’re not sure how to do it, there are usually instructions on the back that walk you through it!)

Having a current and accurate balance is needed when setting up and using your Roadmap, but it’s also incredibly important to note that it will also help you find any discrepancies, mistakes, or unauthorized use of your account. In this day and age of identity theft, you can’t be too careful with your money! No one at the bank is monitoring your account, and the computer simply spits out your statement, which means it’s up to you to be on top of it. And the best way to do that is to keep your balance up to date and accurate.

I’ve had many, many conversations about money management and finances, and I can tell you right now that one of the most important, and simplest, things you can do for yourself is to keep track of your money on a regular basis. Balance your checkbook every month, keep your Roadmap updated, and once you get the hang of it I’m certain some of that anxiety will start to slip away and you’ll feel much better knowing that you’re in control. It’s a balancing act, but I know you can do it.

Tuesday’s Tip: It’s in the Cards

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I recently went out for breakfast with my friend, Jill, and as I settled into the booth, she slid an envelope my way. I smiled, picked it up, and asked her what this was for. She smiled back and wished me a happy birthday. I was touched by her thoughtfulness and I’m sure I blushed a little. For as often as I insist that my birthday is ‘just another day’, that I still have to get up, take care of my kids, do laundry, cook, clean, go to work, or do whatever it is I need to do – it always warms my heart when someone recognizes it. Even if just to say the words.

I thanked her and took the card in my hands. The envelope looked fancy. It had a birthday cake on the front and some retro curvy stripes on the flap. ‘Happy Birthday’ was even embossed on blue foil. I opened it up. The card itself was made of heavy blue paper, the kind used for scrapbooking, adorned with appliqués of those retro stripes and matching ribbon, ‘Happy Birthday’, and a cake with sparkly candles. It was so pretty! Inside, the message read, “Wishing you a happy birthday”. She added a personal note that made me laugh out loud. (No, I’m not going to share it with you here – it’s personal!)

Birthday Card

It really was a beautiful card and it looked handmade, so I asked her if she’d created it. That’s when she gave me that sheepish grin of hers and confessed her little secret: it was one of many greeting cards included in a large box set that she bought at a wholesale club store.

My jaw dropped. She laughed. Then she proceeded to explain that she’d discovered one of these sets a few years ago and that it was different every year. It contained cards for just about every occasion you could think of: anniversaries, weddings, babies, birthdays, sympathy, and even thank you cards. She couldn’t remember exactly how many were in the box or how much it cost, but according to her estimate, the cards averaged out to less than $1 per card. Again, my jaw dropped. Considering we readily pay $2 . . . $3 . . . $4 per card at the grocery store or a gift store, this was a great find! I couldn’t believe it! (I also made a mental note to look for it the next time I was there . . .)

Long story short . . . I was incredibly touched by the simple, yet heartfelt gesture of my dear friend. She didn’t have to give me a card for my birthday, but she did – and I felt loved. It reminded me that something as simple as a birthday wish could bring so much joy to a person’s life. We’re all busy. It’s hard to find time to give the kind of attention our friends and family deserve. But the small gesture of a card to say, “I’m thinking of you” could just make someone’s day . . . or week . . . or month . . . you get the picture.

And it doesn’t have to cost a fortune! ;D

Tuesday’s Tip: Find the Freebies

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The other day, someone mentioned my post about buying memberships, but hinted that it’s not exactly feasible for her and her family at the moment and asked me if there was something else I could recommend. There is one thing . . .

FREEBIES!

During certain times of the year, including summer, holidays, and slow months, there can be a multitude of specials the whole family can enjoy. Here are a few tips:

1) Check out coupon sites online. There are lots of sites that have things like buy 1 Get 1 sales or free products and services – just be sure to do a little research first and pick the sites that offer things you like to do.

2) Check websites of your favorite museums. Many times they’ll offer free admission on certain days of the week. Usually it’s midweek, or a day that’s typically slow for them. If you can manage a day off, it’s worth it. There’s less traffic and smaller crowds to deal with!

3) Many communities are now offering events like ‘Movies in the Park’ or summer festivals that offer free admission. Sometimes you can even bring your own food and picnic there.

4) Research places that offer free things for students. You’d be surprised how many places will give kids a price break if they bring their student ID!

5) Last, but not least, check out websites for free things to do in your area or a closer, major city. Type something like free things to do in fill in the city name here and see what happens.

The point is, you can have a good time without completely emptying your wallet. If a membership isn’t in the cards for you right now, that’s ok. But you don’t have to stay at home everyday wondering what to do to keep your kids from murdering each other. Yes, it takes a little bit of effort, but here’s another tip: if you’re part of a social network, see what you’re friends are up to, what they’re doing, and where they’re going. You might find some good ideas and great deals.

Happy summer!

Tuesday’s Tip: Membership Pays

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Well, summer has officially begun! It’s the time of year we dream of during the cold, winter months when the skies are bleak and gray. It’s a time that brings about cherished memories of summers past. A time we eagerly anticipate as the world begins to thaw and spring to life once again. A time to venture out of our homes, to explore the wonders that surround us . . . but do you ever find yourself wondering: What should we do? There are so many different options during the summer months but, while we’d like to do all of them, there just doesn’t seem to be enough time . . . or enough money.

So consider this: a membership.

If there’s a particular place you enjoy visiting, or a certain activity you engage in frequently, then you may want to consider becoming a member. But the cost of membership seems so expensive! you might think. It’ll never pay for itself. Ok. Valid concern. Let’s take a closer look at it . . .

Let’s say you love going to the zoo. You have a family of 5. To park your car, that’ll cost $10. General admission is $30 for 2 adults, and $31.50 for your 3 kids under age 11. The subtotal, so far, comes to $71.50 – just to walk in the gate. Now your kids are begging you to see the dolphin show. That’s another $7.50. Oh! And there’s a super cool special exhibit, for this summer only, that your kids are dying to see. That’s an additional $19. That brings our total to $98. And now they’re thirsty. And hungry. And there’s an awesome something-or-other at the gift shop that only costs $10 . . .

Oh! I’m sorry . . . is your head spinning? Breathe. Take deep breaths. In through your nose. Out through your mouth.

Ok. Same scenario – but as a member. The cost of a family membership is $115. That includes unlimited admission and parking for a year, plus a free guest, 4 tickets to the dolphin show, 4 tickets to ride the tram, some free passes you can give to your family or friends, admission to the children’s play zoo, and discounts on everything from food to merchandise to special events and exhibits. So, if we do a little math (don’t panic!) we see that, even if you choose to simply walk around, skip all the extras, and buy absolutely nothing, the total cost of 2 visits is $143 – which means the membership will have already paid for itself. If you return several times throughout the year, you’ll save hundreds of dollars just in admission and parking fees alone. For example, if I paid $71.50 for each of 5 trips to the zoo, I’d pay a total of $357.50. If I buy a zoo membership for $115, I’d save $242.50 over the course of the year. Want to get really nuts? $115 divided by 5 visits means that the cost per visit would only be $23. For the whole family. That’s a lot better than $71.50.

What else can you do? Who else offers deals and memberships? Ask around. Look up your favorites online. If you enjoy swimming, check out the cost of a pool pass. Do you like museums? How about amusement parks? Or maybe camping? Local sporting events? Golf? Whatever the case may be, do a little research. Find out what’s included in the cost, what the perks are, and if it’s something worth doing. Calculate how much it would cost you for multiple visits and then compare it to the cost of a membership. Or, you can take the cost of the membership and divide it by the number of visits you could realistically make and see what the cost per visit is. Either way, you may just find that being a member can be a very economical way to do the things you enjoy most.

Tuesday’s Tip: Invest for Your Future

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As the last post regarding what to do with your tax refund, I’d like to suggest beginning to set aside some money for you. I’m assuming that you’d rather not work until you’re 96, so now is the time to stash away some cash for your retirement. Some of you may think ‘Oh, I’m too old to start saving for retirement’, or ‘I can barely get by on a daily basis, how the heck am I going to save for the future?’. Well, guess what? It’s never too late. And if  you’re in a pickle, financially, then it’s time to fix up the engine so you can get behind the wheel and go where you’d like to go.

If you participate in a retirement savings program through your company, like a 401(k), good for you. That’s fantastic. But to be honest, I wouldn’t necessarily count on that as your sole source of income after you retire. In this day and age, you need to cast your net a little wider to ensure you don’t have to eat peanut butter and jelly for the rest of your life.

There are several different coffee cans to toss your spare pennies into, like bonds, CDs, mutual funds, stocks, money market accounts, IRAs, and such. (I’m not going to give you any kind of advice about which ones are performing well or suggest that you buy into any one fund or stock. I’m merely pointing out that you have options.) These types of investment opportunities are separate from a company-sponsored 401(k), so it’s up to you to decide how much money you want to invest – and then you make the deposits. You can do that monthly, quarterly, yearly – whenever you have some extra cash to throw at it. That’s why I suggest using your tax refund money to get you started. If you don’t need it, why not put it to good use? But let me throw in a word of caution: if you’re going to make this one of your priorities, make sure that you keep up with it. There’s no sense in opening an account if you’re never going to contribute to it.

If this sounds like something you’d be interested in doing, then hop on the computer and do a little research. Visit the websites of different investment firms in your area, find out what they have to offer, and then make an appointment. A professional financial planner can answer any questions you may have and will give you advice about the best places to put your hard-earned cash.

And just so you know – he or she will probably ask you what your goals (a.k.a. priorities) are in life. Maybe now would be a good time to brainstorm . . .

Tuesday’s Tip: Invest in Your Home

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If you own your home, you know that the projects seem to be never-ending. There’s always something that needs to be fixed, painted, or replaced. Things wear out. It happens. But the real problem comes when you have to scrounge up enough money from somewhere to buy a new water heater because your old one unexpectedly handed in its resignation all over your floor. The trick is to have some money on hand for The Unfortunate. You may not have a lot to spare, but earmarking some is certainly something to think about doing so you’re not panicking if an emergency arises.

But what about the things you’re planning to do? Maybe you’d like to get new kitchen appliances . . . or new flooring . . . or new furniture . . . or you need to paint a few rooms . . . the list can go on and on. If you’re eyeing that fridge you saw in the ad, then grab a calculator and do a little math. How much is it? How much is it on sale? How much do you need to set aside each month (or paycheck) so that you can buy it in 3 months? 6 months? Do you need new carpet in the family room? Measure the room. Find the square footage. Shop around and compare prices. How much would it cost to carpet the room? How much do you need to save each month to have it installed in 4 months? 8 months? A year? Do they offer some favorable financing? Or maybe a deal offering no interest, no down payment, etc.?

If you’re contemplating a home improvement project, do a little research and little investigating. Look into different types, models, prices, value, or selection. Be on the lookout for sales and discounts. Then, do the math. One of the principles of The Money Roadmap is to set aside a predetermined amount of money for each of your priorities on a regular basis so that it’s there when you need it. If you do your detective work, then you’ll have a much better idea of how to accomplish your goal. If it’s something that can be achieved with your refund alone, then give it some serious thought. If it’s a more expensive endeavor, then use some of your tax refund to get started, then add to it regularly until you’ve met your goal. Consider it a sort of ‘down payment’ on what you’re working toward.

Your home is your living space . . . work space . . . family place . . . hiding place . . . you name it. So put your money to good use and make it yours.

If you’re interested in learning more about how to have more control over your money, check out my book The Money Roadmap: You choose the destination AND the way! Good luck to you! You know where to find me if you have any questions!