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Questions, Questions . . .

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Got some for me? Questions about The Money Roadmap program? About me? How about a previous post on the site? Or maybe questions about money management in general? Advice?

Just ask!

I’ll be adding another feature called “Q & Amy”. If you have a question for me, simply go to the ‘Contact’ page, fill out the quick online form and send it. Or, you can now email me at amy@themoneyroadmap.com! I’ll do my very best to answer your questions as soon, and as thoroughly, as I can. I will post the questions and answers on the website. Who knows, your question may help someone else! And don’t worry – I won’t use your name. I promise. And if you’d rather keep the question between us, just let me know. Not everyone wants their questions posted and I completely understand.

I hope to hear from you soon!

 

Please keep in mind that I will only answer questions related to the subject matter on this website. I will not entertain solicitations, spam, profanity, or otherwise inappropriate material.

TMR Tip: Get Back to School for Less

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Ah yes . . . just when summer really gets rolling, it comes to an abrupt halt. Time for school!

And back-to-school shopping.

That task alone is enough to send some of us into hiding. Or a panic. I, personally, don’t like shopping of any kind. My motto: Get in, get it, and get out! Which is why I’m always looking for shortcuts. You too? These tips might help . . .

  1. Figure out what you actually need. My kids sort all their unused supplies and check them against their new supply lists. They highlight only the things that they need. That instantly reduces how much I’m going to spend at the store. Why buy things we already have?
  2. Check out all the ads. Every retailer has deals on school supplies. Glance through the ads to find the best prices. (By the way, Gregory Karp of the Chicago Tribune says that if a store puts a limit on how many you can buy, then it’s a really good deal.)
  3. Spread it out. I usually favor the once-and-done tactic, but if I find a great deal at another time, I buy it. Not everything goes on sale the same week and some weeks I can find better deals than others. You just need to keep an eye out for them.
  4. Use coupons and/or discounts. Whether you clip coupons or subscribe to a retailer’s email program, use them to your advantage. Find the best deal, then break out the discounts.
  5. Look where you least expect to find a deal. Karp suggests looking at places that aren’t on the typical back-to-school radar. He says places like Menards can have awesome deals on supplies that end up being free after the rebate.
  6. Take advantage of your smartphone. There’s at least one app (and I’m sure a few more) that lets you scan the bar code on an item and instantly compare prices as you’re standing in the store. My hubby thinks this is really cool and has a little too much fun with it.
  7. Get it tax-free. Many retailers are offering “tax-free” days. You can load up on school supplies and save money simply by not paying sales tax. Check the papers and online ads to find out which stores participate.

Hopefully these tips will help alleviate some of the anxiety that comes with shopping for school supplies – and clothes, for that matter. Apply these same strategies when trying to dress your children for the next big step. Happy shopping!

Tuesday’s Tip: Build a Rainy Day Fund

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When people ask me how my money management system works, I tell them that it’s a way to take the money they earn and put it where it needs to go so that their bills are paid in full and on time. They can also use the system to put money aside for other necessities, savings, or things they want. I strongly urge people to have a ‘rainy day fund’ for those unexpected things that pop up from time to time. If you think rainy day savings are unnecessary, think again.

Case in point: my family and I went on vacation recently to Virginia. We set up our camper in Williamsburg for a week and hit all the great tourist attractions like Colonial Williamsburg, Jamestown, Yorktown, and Water Country USA. Then, we headed to Staunton and set up camp for another week. We relaxed by the lake, fished, and hiked a few trails in the Shenandoah National Forest. We even took a trip  to Monticello (Thomas Jefferson’s home) – and that’s when trouble hit.

We’d been caught in a storm on the mountain, the roads were a little slick, and the grade of the road was a bit steep. Suddenly, the van’s gears wouldn’t engage. We heard a strange noise. We managed to pull over, turn the car off, then restart it. My husband put it in drive. It moved forward. We got on the highway and made it to our exit – barely. We ended up limping into the parking lot of an auto parts store. And that’s where she died. Old Blue wasn’t going anywhere. Reverse? Nope. Drive? No way. Fourth? Uh uh. Park was all that worked.

In the next 30 minutes, we scrambled to arrange for a rental car and a tow truck to haul Old Blue to the dealership nearby. We visited her the next day and the diagnosis sent us reeling: the transmission was shot. Gone. There was no saving it. She needed a whole new one.

Ugh.

To add insult to injury, we found out the axle was locked and had to be torched off. The parts wouldn’t be in for another several days. We were scheduled to leave for home the next day. After a lot of discussion, we decided we had to leave her there for a while so she could be fixed. We simply could not stay for an unknown length of time. (My husband likes his job and wants to keep it!) So, we secured storage for our camper, stuffed ourselves into a little sedan, and spent the next 2 days in virtual silence, trying to absorb all that had happened and figuring out what we were going to do now.

As it turns out, 2 weeks later, my husband and I had to fly out to Virginia, pick up Old Blue, get our camper out of storage, and drive home. I’m not going to divulge how much we’ve had to spend on a rental car, tow, repairs, plane tickets, a hotel room, and food, but suffice it to say that we were incredibly glad we had our ‘rainy day fund’. It literally saved the day. Now we don’t have to take money that’s supposed to go for paying the mortgage, our regular bills, or kids’ college savings. We’ll have to, basically, start all over again to build it back up, but I’m grateful we had it.

Now we can move forward . . . and so can our van.

Tuesday’s Tip: Count Your Blessings

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New Year’s Eve: easily one of the most anticipated days of the year – or one of the most dreaded. Whether we’re bidding a fond ‘farewell’ to great times or saying ‘good riddance’ to memories we’d rather forget, we tend to spend this time reflecting on the events of the past year before we look ahead to whatever awaits us during the year to come. And it isn’t always easy.

For me, I belong to the group of people who would like to tie up 2013 in a trash bag and throw it on the curb. It can rot in the dump alongside 2012. My family and I have endured enough heartache and loss in two years to last us for quite a while, so I suppose we’re hoping not necessarily for a prosperous or wonderful year, but maybe just one that doesn’t beat us up so much. And I know I’m not alone. Many people feel this way. It’s a little frightening to wonder what life has in store for us in the new year after all we’ve been through.

But as much as I might like to wash 2013 down the drain, I must also show a little gratitude for what the struggles have revealed to me. My friends supported me, even when I was at my worst. I’ve grown closer to others in my family. I appreciate and enjoy my children more. My marriage is stronger than ever. My feelings about what’s really important in life have changed for the better. And I’ve survived, which tells me I’m tougher than I thought.

So, I’m thinking that instead of feeling sorry for myself as I ring in 2014, maybe I’ll rummage through 2013, keep what I need, and toss the rest. Then I’ll start fresh in the morning and take it as it comes, grateful for all that I have. I’m not saying that I won’t grieve or feel sadness or anger, but I just won’t let it consume me. I’ll have another New Year’s Eve whenever I need it, take stock of the good stuff, get rid of the bad, and keep going.

I’m not one for making New Year’s resolutions, but maybe counting my blessings every once in a while is a good start . . .

Tuesday’s Tip: Hold It In!

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With the weather in Chicago turning (much!) colder, my husband and I had our yearly conversation about how to keep electric and heating costs down this winter. Not that our bills are outrageous. In fact, ours seem to be lower than a lot of people we talk to, but it takes a little effort to keep them under control. Still, we want our family to be comfortable, so when our daughter came to us complaining that she had to pile six blankets on her bed to keep warm at night, we were concerned. Hubby and I looked at each other. The window? And not just any window. A set of three large windows, actually, that take up virtually one entire wall of the bedroom. Without a word, we both trudged up the stairs to assess the situation. Our hands hovered over every joint, edge, and seam of the windows, searching for the tell-tale draft we were sure was turning our little girl into an icicle. We couldn’t find it, but we did notice how very cold it was. The giant wall of glass provided no insulation from the cold that secretly seeped into the room.

What to do . . .

Well, way back in the day, when I was in college (and, no, I’m telling how far back) my roommate and I shared the top floor of a century-old house with windows facing every direction to the outside world. It was great when it was sunny, filling the apartment with warm sunshine. But during the winter, the wind’s icy fingers crept into our little home, making the radiators moan with the effort of keeping us warm. We asked our landlady what to do and all she offered in the way of advice was to stuff towels along the seams and hang old blankets from the curtain rods. Huh . . . yeah, ok. Sure. That’ll work. We tried it anyway, but didn’t like the fact that the blankets blocked out the natural light, making us feel like we were living in a dungeon. And it didn’t do a very good job of stopping the drafts from finding other gaps in the window sills. So, we asked our parents. They suggested putting plastic over the windows. We did, and it worked. It wasn’t perfect, but we were much warmer and, subsequently, happier knowing we weren’t going to have to take a blow dryer to our toes in the morning anymore.

So, my husband stopped by the hardware store on his way home from work the next day and picked up a package of insulating wrap. It was only about $8 or $10 and was made for large windows and patio doors. After dinner, we set out to keep our daughter from freezing while she slept. Start to finish, it took us about 45 minutes. We took down the valances and curtains, wiped the surfaces, then rolled the double-sided tape along all the edges. Next, we carefully placed the plastic around the window, trying not to make any wrinkles. Then my husband waved my hair dryer over the entire surface until the plastic was taut. Then we replaced all the curtains. Done. The next morning, our daughter gleefully informed us that she was so warm that night that she had to take off her socks and shed a blanket or two. Naturally, we were relieved and glad we wouldn’t be treating her for frostbite.

Surprisingly, the process of insulating windows with plastic isn’t very difficult. Plus, it’s an inexpensive way to block drafts and chilliness while holding the heat in, which will save you money on heating costs. You can even see through it. If you have drafty windows, but can’t afford to replace them just yet, consider installing these plastic insulating wraps to your windows. You can find them at hardware, grocery, and discount stores. (Chances are they’re on sale right now.) They also come in several different sizes with everything you need to protect your windows, including instructions. You supply the hair dryer. It’s an easy, inexpensive alternative to freezing to death or going broke.

Tuesday’s Tip: Find the Freebies

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The other day, someone mentioned my post about buying memberships, but hinted that it’s not exactly feasible for her and her family at the moment and asked me if there was something else I could recommend. There is one thing . . .

FREEBIES!

During certain times of the year, including summer, holidays, and slow months, there can be a multitude of specials the whole family can enjoy. Here are a few tips:

1) Check out coupon sites online. There are lots of sites that have things like buy 1 Get 1 sales or free products and services – just be sure to do a little research first and pick the sites that offer things you like to do.

2) Check websites of your favorite museums. Many times they’ll offer free admission on certain days of the week. Usually it’s midweek, or a day that’s typically slow for them. If you can manage a day off, it’s worth it. There’s less traffic and smaller crowds to deal with!

3) Many communities are now offering events like ‘Movies in the Park’ or summer festivals that offer free admission. Sometimes you can even bring your own food and picnic there.

4) Research places that offer free things for students. You’d be surprised how many places will give kids a price break if they bring their student ID!

5) Last, but not least, check out websites for free things to do in your area or a closer, major city. Type something like free things to do in fill in the city name here and see what happens.

The point is, you can have a good time without completely emptying your wallet. If a membership isn’t in the cards for you right now, that’s ok. But you don’t have to stay at home everyday wondering what to do to keep your kids from murdering each other. Yes, it takes a little bit of effort, but here’s another tip: if you’re part of a social network, see what you’re friends are up to, what they’re doing, and where they’re going. You might find some good ideas and great deals.

Happy summer!

Tuesday’s Tip: Membership Pays

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Well, summer has officially begun! It’s the time of year we dream of during the cold, winter months when the skies are bleak and gray. It’s a time that brings about cherished memories of summers past. A time we eagerly anticipate as the world begins to thaw and spring to life once again. A time to venture out of our homes, to explore the wonders that surround us . . . but do you ever find yourself wondering: What should we do? There are so many different options during the summer months but, while we’d like to do all of them, there just doesn’t seem to be enough time . . . or enough money.

So consider this: a membership.

If there’s a particular place you enjoy visiting, or a certain activity you engage in frequently, then you may want to consider becoming a member. But the cost of membership seems so expensive! you might think. It’ll never pay for itself. Ok. Valid concern. Let’s take a closer look at it . . .

Let’s say you love going to the zoo. You have a family of 5. To park your car, that’ll cost $10. General admission is $30 for 2 adults, and $31.50 for your 3 kids under age 11. The subtotal, so far, comes to $71.50 – just to walk in the gate. Now your kids are begging you to see the dolphin show. That’s another $7.50. Oh! And there’s a super cool special exhibit, for this summer only, that your kids are dying to see. That’s an additional $19. That brings our total to $98. And now they’re thirsty. And hungry. And there’s an awesome something-or-other at the gift shop that only costs $10 . . .

Oh! I’m sorry . . . is your head spinning? Breathe. Take deep breaths. In through your nose. Out through your mouth.

Ok. Same scenario – but as a member. The cost of a family membership is $115. That includes unlimited admission and parking for a year, plus a free guest, 4 tickets to the dolphin show, 4 tickets to ride the tram, some free passes you can give to your family or friends, admission to the children’s play zoo, and discounts on everything from food to merchandise to special events and exhibits. So, if we do a little math (don’t panic!) we see that, even if you choose to simply walk around, skip all the extras, and buy absolutely nothing, the total cost of 2 visits is $143 – which means the membership will have already paid for itself. If you return several times throughout the year, you’ll save hundreds of dollars just in admission and parking fees alone. For example, if I paid $71.50 for each of 5 trips to the zoo, I’d pay a total of $357.50. If I buy a zoo membership for $115, I’d save $242.50 over the course of the year. Want to get really nuts? $115 divided by 5 visits means that the cost per visit would only be $23. For the whole family. That’s a lot better than $71.50.

What else can you do? Who else offers deals and memberships? Ask around. Look up your favorites online. If you enjoy swimming, check out the cost of a pool pass. Do you like museums? How about amusement parks? Or maybe camping? Local sporting events? Golf? Whatever the case may be, do a little research. Find out what’s included in the cost, what the perks are, and if it’s something worth doing. Calculate how much it would cost you for multiple visits and then compare it to the cost of a membership. Or, you can take the cost of the membership and divide it by the number of visits you could realistically make and see what the cost per visit is. Either way, you may just find that being a member can be a very economical way to do the things you enjoy most.

Tuesday’s Tip: Invest in Your Kids

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In this week’s installment of ‘what to do with your tax refund’, I’d like to suggest that you invest in your children. Invest in their futures. “You mean, like, save for college?” Well, yes. And no. There’s more than one way to give your kids a helping hand. Even if you don’t have kids, but will, keep these thoughts in mind for future reference.

If you have visions of sending your kids off to college someday, you may want to consider a higher education savings program. And by ‘higher education’, I mean anything beyond high school. There are several options out there, and that can get pretty confusing, so it’s best to chat with a professional who can sort it all out for you and help you decide which way to go. Every investment firm has people to help you, or you can ask a friend or colleague to recommend one. I’ll be going into a little more depth about these options at a later date, but for all intents and purposes, today, I’m just trying to plant a few seeds for you. One word of advice though . . . start as soon as you can and then stick with it. Or start with your refund and do what you can when you can. Every little bit helps.

Another way to invest in your kids is to get them involved. Use the refund money to pay for music lessons or to learn a sport. Both activities teach kids how to be valuable members of a group, develop fine motor skills, and improve self-confidence. Sports help kids maintain healthy lifestyles and weight, and studies have shown that kids involved in music do better in school. So, not only will your kids be active and engaged, but the skills they’ll learn will teach them discipline, cooperation, and that hard work pays off. Who knows, their talents may even help them into college, if that’s their dream.

If your child is completely against music or sports, there are other options to pursue. There are classes they can enroll in through libraries, park districts, and even local community colleges. If your child has a talent for creating delicious meals, then try a junior chef class. If he or she has a knack for computers, there are many classes that focus on things from program or gaming design to architecture. And if your kid loves photography, try one of those. The possibilities are nearly endless. Talk with your children about what interests them and move forward from there. There are lots of inexpensive options if you spend a little time doing some research.

I could go on and on about the benefits of getting kids involved in all kinds of activities, but I’ll save that for another time, maybe. But for now, I’ll just make the humble suggestion of putting your tax refund to good use by using it to pave the way to self-discovery and to help build their futures . . . whatever they may be.

Tuesday’s Tip: Set Up Camp

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I don’t know about you, but Cabin Fever has crept into our house and settled in. It’s cold and dreary outside, with no snow to play in, and it’s making us nuts. Ugh! We were discussing that very thing at dinner and how much we wished for warmer weather when it dawned on me . . . and I said to my family, “You know, camping season is less than two months away.”

The kids gasped, exchanged wild glances (mouths gaping), and began to cheer. This is exciting stuff for us. Truly. Some may understand and agree, while others may crinkle their noses and think ‘ewww’. The images that are conjured up in the mind include mosquitoes, big bugs, campfire smell, getting dirty, and public bathrooms. But for us, it means summer. It means travel and freedom. It means campfires and s’mores. It means swimming, fishing, and being outside. It means grilling, picnics, and hayrack rides. It means hiking, exploring, and a host of other fantastic adventures. And we can’t wait for it to start . . .

So, how is this related to saving money? Easy. Camping is less expensive than typical vacations. In most cases, there is an initial investment to consider, however the long-term benefits are phenomenal, especially when you consider the cost of lodging. Depending on where you camp, fees can be as low as $10 per night. The more amenities there are, the higher the price, but we’ve never paid more than $30 per night – anywhere. Good luck finding a hotel room for those prices! If you’d like to give camping a try, here are a few tips to keep expenses to a minimum.

First of all, keep in mind that you’ll be taking your stuff with you and hauling it back home afterward, so you’ll need to pack lightly. Take only what you absolutely need. Pack minimal personal items, like clothing and a few toiletries. Pack a couple of travel-sized games or cards and a book. These are all things you probably have at home, so no need to buy anything. If you’re going for just a night or two, bring your food with you, but make sure you plan easy meals. Nothing elaborate. You’re camping, not ‘dining’.

Second, if you don’t have any gear whatsoever, you have a couple of options. You can purchase the basics, like a few pots and pans, at discount stores or simply bring what you need from your own kitchen, especially if you’re testing the camping waters. Also, use paper plates and plastic utensils and cups to make clean-up quick and easy. Plus, they’re cheap, lightweight, and easy to store. And chances are that you already have a sleeping bag hidden in a closet somewhere, so you’re halfway there.

Third, if you are new to camping and don’t have a tent, borrow one if you can. Most of us know someone who camps, so it’s not that difficult to track one down. If, however, you absolutely can’t stand (or can’t physically handle) sleeping on or near the ground, you can go the camper route. Many campgrounds and dealerships rent various types of campers from pop-ups to 5th wheels to luxury busses. If you know someone with a camper, try offering to rent theirs, or ask if you can go camping with them to see if it suits you. (Camping is always fun with more than one family!)

Finally, make sure you research different campgrounds. Compare campsites, prices, and amenities. There’s a difference in price for primitive vs. water & electric vs. full hook-up. Also, some campgrounds have all kinds of things like pools, tennis and basketball courts, mini-golf, horseshoe pits, hayrack rides, outdoor movies and games for the whole family – but beware! Some places include many of these items in the price, and others charge extra for just about everything.

Really, though, the trick to camping of any kind is to keep it simple. Take what you need. If it doesn’t fit in the backpack, leave it behind. You’re not going to need your phone, fax, and copier. Or your surround sound system. Disconnect! It’s easy to get caught up in the complexities of life and we think we can’t live without all of our gadgets, toys, and gizmos, but the reality is that camping is an inexpensive way to bring us together and enjoy all the simple things in life that we’ve forgotten. The warmth of a blazing campfire, the sweetness of a gooey marshmallow, the glow of the morning sun on a still lake, the giggles of kids playing tag, or the songs we sing on a sunset hayrack ride . . .

Campin’ season’s a comin’!

Tuesday’s Tip: Don’t Bet On It

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This morning, my husband told me that he and some buddies at work were going to pitch in (a buck each) and play the lottery this week. “How much?” I asked. “$250 million,” he said. Not bad. Oh, what we could do with that much money, right? Admit it, you’ve thought the same thing at some point in your life. We all have. Who wouldn’t love to win the lottery?

What’s interesting to note, however, is what some people may sacrifice to increase their odds of winning.

I once stood in line behind a man who tossed fifty dollars on the counter and handed over several sheets of official lottery paper with all the bubbles filled in. I could tell by the slightly tattered edges and bent corners that they’d been used many times. And I wondered how often he sacrificed his fifty to the lottery gods . . . once a month? Once a week? Twice a week? And had he ever won anything? The cashier ran the papers through the machine, rang him up, gave him his pile of bubble sheets and tickets, then said goodbye – and called him by name. Oh my. I then stepped up to the counter, handed over my one dollar bill and asked for the computer to choose my numbers. (What?! Can’t I play, too?) The jackpot was one of the highest on record . . . I had to try. Ah, the lure of easy money. So tempting . . .

But it got me wondering . . . just what are the odds of winning? What is the likelihood that someone would win the big jackpot? Just how possible is it to beat disgustingly overwhelming odds and get rich quick? A better question might be ‘what other things are more likely to happen than winning the lottery’? Well, let’s see. You have a greater chance of being struck by lightning . . . dying from a bee sting or even some disease that will eat at you from the inside out . . . ending up on death row . . . and dying in a car crash on your way to buy the ticket . . . than you do of winning the jackpot. Some people believe that there are ways to increase your chances of winning by choosing the same numbers every time, studying the recurrence of numbers, avoiding certain numbers, or picking ones that aren’t popular. If you ask me, the only thing that increases is the amount of the jackpot.

All kidding aside, what’s really scary is how much some people actually fork over for their chance to win big. Gas money. Food money. Rent money. All in the hopes of striking it rich. I’m all for a little fun, but not if it means putting the needs of my family at risk. Sure, it’s fun to dream, but dreams alone don’t pay the bills or feed your children and not winning will get old pretty quickly. So, if you’re thinking of throwing your hat into the lottery ring, be realistic about your chances and just make sure you’re in it for fun.